We are in this world for three main reasons- the first is to experience as many different things as possible and enjoy life to the fullest. The second reason is to create something and leave a lasting impression. The third reason is to improve, grow, and evolve to become the best version of ourselves. Inspired by a deck repair business in Fredericksburg, I embarked on a journey of reading, exercising, eating healthy, and having a sound financial plan to realize the best version of myself- the results have been tremendous.
The key question you need to ask yourself is – what can you do to become the best version of yourself? Let us explore the habits we can culture and work on, to become the best versions of ourselves.
Stop the fear of failure
Doe failing make you worry about what others will say about you? Does failing make you think people will label you as stupid and less worth? If that is the case, it is one of the biggest contributors that is hindering your success. It is important to realize that failure is a natural part of life and is not by any means the end of the world. Highly successful people have failed in their lives before they got a balance that defines their success.
Stop the fear of success
Do you get perplexed when everything is going on well to a point you can’t comprehend how the success you are experiencing has been so long term, and instead start contemplating and waiting for something wrong to happen instead? There might be chances that you get close to making a major breakthrough and all of a sudden, something happens that makes you fall back to where you started. If that is the case, don’t term it as coincidence- instead, it is the fear of success, and you must be ready to deal with it.
Stop pleasing people
Are you faced with situations where you want everyone to like you? You avoid disagreeing with people and you never speak up your mind? You never get angry and you never say no. If that is the case, you are many miles away from becoming the best version of yourself. You need to stop playing the role of a nice guy and become a little selfish by putting your interests first. For any second you remain to be a people’s pleaser, a part of you dies. People pleasers are taken advantage of and get prone to stress and depression.
Stop criticizing and judging others
People are so quick to judge and label others without even knowing deeply how people are. To become the best version of yourself, you must be willing and ready to eliminate all negative energy. When you throw negative energy at others, you will be potentially damaging your self-worth and self-esteem. You will also be throwing some buckets of negative energy into the universe for yourself. Avoid assuming anything and don’t create any expectations from others.